263 | Dating, Chivalry in the Me Too Era, How to Like Yourself, Pivoting Careers with Writer and Dating Coach Clara Artschwager Part 1 + Interview with Darin Olien of Barukas Nuts

Episode Summary

As I say in the podcast, about a million people sent this article today’s guest Clara Artschwager wrote for the Cut. I related, loved it and instantly reached out to have her on the podcast. Turns out she’d already been an Internet friend of mine and had listened to the podcast since back in the Wellness Wonderland days. She is one of the kindest, most nurturing, talented, and wisest women I know. She had me over to her house upstate to record this episode. Our conversation was so robust I’m doing something I rarely do - splitting this episode into two. You’ll hear half this week were we discuss dating, chivalry in the Me Too era and meeting online vs meeting in person. Next week in part two, we'll discuss ghosting, jealousy, and unrequited love (oof!).She’s the best enjoy this episode then read her work and follow all she does. This is the first of many collaborations from us too.

Episode Notes

Notes from the Show:

-Clara Artschwager website | instagram

- Clara's articles for The Cut

Likes & Learns:

-Yoke Lore and his song "Good Pain"

-Andrew Bird's newest album "My Finest Work Yet"

-Off Camera episode with Andrew Bird 

-My learn for this week: nothing is certain!

-"Your task is not to seek for love but merely to seek and find all of the barriers within yourself that you have built against it."

All original music composed by Carolyn Pennypacker Riggs

Album art by Zoie Harman

Cool Things to Check-Out:

- Clara and I are hosting an event at The Hoxton Williamsburg on dating and relationships July 17th. Save the date!

-My journaling class with Bluprint is now live and I am so excited to share it with you guys!-

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If you Liked This Episode Try Out:

-Episode 133 with Alexi Wasser

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